4 Things a Man Can Do to Raise His Bedroom Game (That Will Have Her Coming Back for More!)

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As men, each one of us owns the responsibility of creating an environment and connection that will entice the object of our affection to crave us.  To some degree, this is luck.  Sometimes people’s personalities and energies just dovetail perfectly.  Sometimes, in rare situations, the normal strategies don’t work or are not even tried, and an enchanting tangling of souls and bodies occurs regardless.  But if you want to ensure you have a connection and repeat dates and sexual encounters, there are…

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Myths About Matchmaking — Debunked

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If trying to meet men or women feels like a second job, hiring a matchmaker is a sound choice because a matchmaker undertakes the task for you. This frees up your time, you avoid awkward situations, and you remain comfortably ensconced in your real work and daily routines. But for various reasons, misunderstandings abound about what matchmakers do and how we do it. There’s no reason to treat someone whose life mission is to help people experience more love like a…

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Taking the Sting Out of Rejection and Putting Yourself at the Center of Love

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By Suzanna Mathews, The Date Maven [Also published at 360Wichita.com] Everyone wants love. No one wants rejection. This is fact. It is basic to human nature. Ben Franklin said, “If you would be loved, love and be lovable.” That sounds cute. Seems sensible. But have you ever put yourself out there, served up a big ‘ol whopping, “Here I am, I’m awesome, come and play with me!” and were met with, “No thanks. I’ll pass.” I have. Ouchie mama! What…

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Do You Suffer from Any of These Misnomers and Misunderstandings About Dating?

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Misnomers and Misunderstandings. I come across a lot of them as I talk to people who are navigating the world of dating and social connection. Here are a few stand-outs — and I’ll add more as I come across them and debunk the MM’s as we go: Misnomer/misunderstanding: I like my privacy. Since I didn’t tell my dating app to be aware of my location, it shouldn’t know where I am. Truth: Many dating apps follow your location. This is…

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Online Dating: Don’t Be Greedy!

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Turn on the TV during the month of January and you will undoubtedly encounter a commercial touting the success rates and marriage statistics of a major online dating site. January is indeed the most abundant month in the online dating game. And if you take the number of married couples who met online and compared it to the total number of married couples in the general population, you might get a reasonably good metric of success! But are those successes…

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The Upside of Being Played

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I‘m glad it’s a girl. And I hope she’ll be a fool – that’s the best thing a girl can be in this world, a beautiful little fool. Daisy Buchanan pretends that she’s happy she’s having a girl, but she knows that girls of any class are the losers in her world – the world that The Great Gatsby was set in (the 1920s).

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