We are always discreet. Your personal information will never be shared without your consent. Every interaction between you and The Date Maven is held in the strictest confidence.

Our clients are individuals who have achieved a high level of success in their professional lives and are looking to experience the same in their personal lives. They are genuine, intelligent, and kind people who are committed to becoming the best version of themselves possible so that they can BE the kind of match they’re looking for!

We work with amazing men and women, just like you, ranging in age from 18 to 80! Historically, most clients are professional singles between the ages of 25 - 65.

Coaching with The Date Maven means transforming mindset and habits in order to transform results. This may include ridding oneself of un-serving negative beliefs, expanding core confidence, and learning how to date online and in real life -- even if you haven't had great luck at it in the past. You'll learn the tools to transform your dating game. Learn how to set up an online profile (even if you think online dating isn’t for you!), how to have meaningful conversations (even if you’re anxious, shy, or out of practice), how flirt, and how to magnetize the kind of person you want.

You may need a dating coach if you’re new to the dating world – or you’ve been single a long time and you’re frustrated with your lack of success so far and you’re not sure what to do next. Working with a coach might be right for you if you’ve been burnt by online dating, you have a hard time making it out of the friend zone, or you can’t seem to get the commitment you crave. You may also benefit from working with a dating coach if you freeze up when trying to make conversation, you have a hard time reading social cues, you fumble at flirting, and you’re not sure what kind of first impression you make. All kinds of people use a dating coach for a variety of different reasons!

Matchmaking is a process wherein we gain understanding of your personality, lifestyle, values and vision, and introduce you to someone with the same or similar wants and needs, usually for the purpose of marriage or a long term relationship. We bring people together who are seeking a lasting commitment; we pair you up so that you have an opportunity to connect and form a romantic friendship with someone you wouldn't have met otherwise.

Matchmaking is perfect for career-minded people who don’t have the time or energy to devote to dating in the modern era. It is also for people who don’t like meeting online or in bars and who are just looking for a more streamlined dating experience. It is for amazing people, just like you, who value their time, energy, and peace of mind.

The concepts of love and healthy relationships cross all borders, so we help people from all over the world! If you can view this website, we can help you and we love serving a local, national, and international clientele. We offer 1 on 1 coaching sessions in English, no matter your location. And, as an active member of Matchmakers Alliance, we have a global network to assist us in finding your person.

As a matchmaker utilizing executive recruiting tactics to facilitate meaningful connections, the size or composition of my database from a specific city is not the primary determinant of my ability to make successful matches. Unlike passive databases that rely solely on the presence of registered members, my approach involves actively seeking out individuals who align with my clients' unique preferences and criteria. By employing executive recruiting strategies, I leverage a proactive and targeted approach to identify potential matches based on specific compatibility factors beyond geographical location. This method allows me to focus on quality over quantity, ensuring that each match is thoughtfully curated and tailored to meet the individual needs and preferences of my clients. Rather than relying solely on the members within my database, I actively seek out qualified candidates through strategic networking, referrals, and outreach efforts. This personalized approach enables me to identify and engage with individuals who possess the desired qualities, values, and relationship goals sought by my clients. The important thing to remember is that the effectiveness of my matchmaking services is rooted in my proactive and personalized style of executive recruiting, which prioritizes quality matches tailored to my clients' preferences, regardless of the size or location-specific composition of my database. This approach ensures a higher likelihood of compatibility and satisfaction for my clients, reflecting my commitment to delivering exceptional matchmaking experiences.

Yes, we have also adapted our processes and methods to serve high-functioning singles on the spectrum. It is essential that you disclose your autism identification to us so that we can apply our experience and ability to help you solve your unique dating and relationship challenges.

Yes we do! We will expertly advise you on your appearance, dating etiquette, conversation starters, first date energy, texting etiquette, etc. We can also arrange for a simulated date in order to gather valuable feedback about both your strengths and blind spots on a first date!

The first step is to complete a Client Application by clicking the button below. Once your client application is received, we will be able to offer dates and times to you for an Exploratory call. Allow about 20-30 minutes for this phone call. It's best to ensure that you'll be in a private space free of distractions. We don't advise taking the call while driving. This call will allow us to get to know you and understand the specific frustrations you're experiencing in your love life! If the problem is something we can help solve, we will then invite you to a Dating Audit & Strategy Session -- a full-length consultation in which we can lay out a customized program for you and answer all your questions about dating & relationship coaching and matchmaking.

Since our programs are tailor-made to each individual, there is not a set menu of fees. The cost for a one-time consultation is $175. Longer-term coaching-only programs begin at $2,400. Hybrid matchmaking programs (which include coaching and curated introductions) begin at $7,500. Once we speak with you and have a deeper understanding of your situation and your needs, we’ll be able to create a solution that’s just for you, and speak to the subject of investment in your Date Coaching and Matchmaking Program.

Your Growth, Your Gain: Why Working with a Dating Expert is an Investment You’ve probably spent hundreds – if not thousands – of dollars trying to date. If you’re a woman, you’ve probably spent a lot of money on things like blow-outs, clothes, facials, gym memberships, makeup, manicures, waxing, and more – all to try to look and feel good and make a good first impression. If you’re a man, you’ve spent money on a few of those things plus the dates themselves: dinner, drinks, movies or other activities. Not to mention subscriptions and fees for dating apps and sites. Likewise, working with a Dating Strategist or Matchmaker entails membership fees, tuition, or retainers as well. But these are not just considered an expense but an investment – an investment in your longterm happiness and satisfaction in life! Your investment in a dating expert will pay off far faster than what you get out of a cute new outfit or having your car detailed. Why? Because the skills and strategies you learn will last a lifetime and you can apply them in a broad range of relationships.

One of the most common myths about working with a professional dating coach and/or personal matchmaker is that it isn't affordable. If you've looked at working with a similar firm in a large metropolitan area -- especially those on the coasts -- you know that date coaching programs can easily run $3,000/month and matchmaking programs can run $20,000-50,000 for a full-service program. While we're not the "cheapest" around, we're far from the most expensive. At The Date Maven, we work hard to deliver exceptional value while offering solutions to people at a variety of price points. We keep our operating costs lean and our overhead low. Our team is small-but-mighty. Sure, many of our matchmaking clients are doctors, lawyers, and executives who are able to invest in luxury lifestyle improvements... but many of our coaching-only clients are single parents, millennials who are still paying off college loans, entrepreneurs running start-ups, and retirees. And we deliver the same passionate, dedicated, expertise to both. Discover how working with your personal coach or matchmaker at The Date Maven can deliver amazing results and cost less than comparable agencies. You'll find that our outstanding client care and favorable cost add up to a tremendous value in personal growth and development and a total transformation of your love life! If you'd like to schedule a free, 20-minute exploratory call, email suzanna@thedatemaven.com

I am highly qualified in my specialty, having spent over 20 years studying gender communications, human sexuality, and the art & science of body language and attraction. I’ve undergone intensive training with the top matchmakers and dating coaches in the country and I continue my education by attending conferences and forging alliances throughout the dating industry.

I believe in quality over quantity. My service is not for the masses; it’s a boutique-style service in which I give you a plan for advancing your dating goals that’s customized to you, your work, and your lifestyle. Being as hands-on and in-depth as I am, I’m not able to take throngs of clients. Instead, I focus on helping 3-5 people at a time and giving them exceptional support and outstanding service. Working with fewer people means each client is special and has greater access to me.

And so does mine. The work I do is intellectual, emotional, and time-consuming. I don’t get paid by the hour, but I do get paid for the VALUE I bring to each hour I spend with you and on your behalf. I have no idea what my time is worth to you, but I know exactly what it’s worth to me -- and I value what I bring to the table as someone who changes love lives. ​ Remember, enlisting the help of a dating coach or matchmaker isn’t purchasing a 5-minute fix. It’s a process and a journey. And the longer we work together, the more you build you skill set and practice the new habits that will help you evolve in your social life and attract love! It’s just like working with a trainer – if you only put in a little time here and there at the gym, you’re not going to change your body. If you work out with frequency, intensity, and consistency, you’re more likely to get the results you want.

Coaches in large cities on the east and west coasts are in markets where people are more familiar with coaching. They more readily understand the benefits of coaching and coaches are in greater demand. Many people who work with executive coaches, health & wellness coaches, and dating coaches see it as a badge of affluence to be able to retain a coach in order to help them achieve the best possible lifestyle and they’re willing to pay for this privilege. As with most consumables, you can expect to pay more in highly-populated areas while fees tend to be more modest in the mid-west. Given these factors, it’s safe to estimate that most established coaches charge between $100-300/hour and most matchmakers charge between $5,000 - $25,000 (more if they bill themselves as “exclusive” or “luxury” matchmakers) for a contract, depending on the length and terms. You won’t always find fees cited on their websites as some coaches (like me) bundle their hours into packages to create greater economy and offer discounts or bonuses for return clients. Of course, if you are considering hiring a dating expert or matchmaker, you should take the time to get to know their approach first and, once you know you like them, then inquire about their fees.